Welcome to Maybe Softer!

Welcome! I don't know about you, but I've been stuck on the struggle bus at certain times in my life longer than I wanted to be whether that be mentally, physically, emotionally, or spiritually. I wanted to share what helped me get off that metaphorical struggle bus and find my way back to myself. I wanted to share what things have worked for me...and not worked for me. I have a long streak of self-hatred and pushing and pushing and pushing myself. One day when I was completely done with being me, I thought why not try doing the exact opposite. Why not try to be gentler to myself? Instead of pushing and forcing, why not try letting myself be? Instead of going a hundred miles per hour, maybe stop to smell the roses or roll a joint? Maybe try softer. 

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